As parents, we all want to wrap up our kids in cotton wool. We want to protect them from the world and provide everything they could ever want and need- but as they grow up and become teenagers we know that’s not best for them any longer. While we’ll always be (and want to be) responsible for our children, one of the greatest gifts we can give them going into adulthood is independence. The ability to stand on their own two feet, and the confidence to know that they can do anything they want. If your child is quickly transforming into a teen, here are some of the things you can do in the coming years to pave the way to becoming a successful adult.
Teach them to cook
Cooking is such an important skill to take into adulthood. Knowing how to cook healthy, balanced meals to a budget will allow them to manage their money as well as their weight and health. Too many teens and young adults leave the family home not knowing how to cook much more than beans or toast, macaroni and cheese or microwave meals. Encourage a love and passion for cooking and good food, teach them basic skills as well as inform them of the kinds of ingredients that go well together. You could get a cookbook for their age range, and work on perfecting a number of recipes. By the time kids leave home, they should be confident in their ability to feed themselves without needing to rely on takeaways and convenience meals.
Get them driving
Once your teen reaches the legal age to drive, getting them onto the roads can be really beneficial. There’s no doubt that this will cost you a small fortune, but once they’ve passed their insurance will gradually decline and by the time they leave home it should be affordable for them. Their age and lack of driving experience will go against them enormously when it comes to insurance, and if they’ve managed to gain some points you’d have to use a specialist young driver insurance with points. But the sooner they pass and the more experience they gain, their insurance will go down each year. Starting out in the world as a young adult is hard enough, but having a car and the independence this brings can make life much easeir for them. It can broaden their job horizons and means that you don’t have to ferry them around.
Encourage them to get a job
Whether it’s to pay towards their car or just for their luxuries, having a job teaches responsibility. It teaches the value of money and can show them how to manage it at a young age. They can learn how to budget and the importance of saving if you really want something. When you give your kids everything they want and need, they can struggle to see the value of them or understand the time and effort it takes to earn that money. So by them getting a job there are some important lessons there.